Feedback Thoughts
Feedback from peers is a tricky thing to accomplish sometimes. Some people don't want to hurt others feelings so they may miss out on the opportunity to help others while others are not shy at all about how they feel and in some cases take critiquing too far. I have been on both ends of this chain. In most of my experience though, feedback has not been as good as it should be. We do a lot of peer reviewing in scientific writing and for in class assignments we would trade our articles and review them. Most all the time I have someone that marks mine up bad. Then when I look over it, it still seems fine to me so I submit it the way I have it and end up with a near perfect score. So in my life I have ignored peer feedback. That being said this class is different than others I have taken where this is taken place. I think I am, like the articles "Fear of Feedback" and "Why Rejection Hurts" discuss, afraid of failure so when I come in contact with feedback that is not what I was hoping it to be I somewhat shut down. With this class however I will welcome feedback because it is creative writing and we all just want the best stories we can have, but everyone has a different way of taking it. This doesn't mean that it is right or wrong because how can a story be right or wrong. Instead it may just help in taking another avenue.
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I agree completely that anticipating feedback can be incredibly nerve wrecking. However, I think any feedback is good because it can help you grow not only as a student, but a person in general. It's always a positive thing if you have high self-esteem and can react to feedback well. I enjoyed reading your post!
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